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district12ravenclaw ([personal profile] district12ravenclaw) wrote2007-02-06 09:14 pm

Well, so much for that

I was talking to my co-worker this morning, and I had mentioned that I really wasn't sure what I wanted to give as my last working date. She agreed that we should ask my replacement when she would be available to start, and then go from there. I guess my co-worker told my boss, which was fine, because I had a feeling that my boss would be asking me today anyway, so my boss told me that my replacement would be able to start work right away. I didn't think anything of it at the time, but then, at the end of the day, my boss came up to me and said "wow, I can't believe I'm only going to see you one more time!" I was floored, and said, "what?!" She then told me that she would have my replacement start NEXT WEEK!

I didn't think she'd move on that quickly, damn! I asked if she wanted to have some overlap, so that I could stick around for at least a couple more weeks, but she said that the girl had experience working as a surgical tech, so it wasn't necessary for me to stick around. I know I wanted to stop working earlier than later, but I wasn't expecting this early!

I came home and told Steve about it, and he's just fine with it. He said that it was probably better for me, as he could tell my heart hasn't been in my work lately. I told him the story about my boss, and then the pregnancy hormones started, and I burst into tears. Like he said, I had been so loyal to them all along, and I feel like I've just been cast aside without a second thought.

Ultimately, I know this will be good for me. I'll be able to rest up, relax, get the house ready, and all that good stuff. I just feel weird about it, ya know?

[identity profile] sparklingstar21.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
Aww Heather, that sucks that you were treated so poorly!! I am sorry! :( Maybe it'll be better in the long run though for you and baby. :)

[identity profile] stevesbabygirl.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I just feel so disposable, ya know? I know it will be better in the long run, and ultimately, I'm happy that I don't have to work now, but I'm just really feeling burned about the way this all ended. I still have to put on a happy face though because I'll be seeing everyone at the animal park on Sunday.

[identity profile] bgum78.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 01:04 pm (UTC)(link)
That really blows. I'm sorry. :( But, on the bright side...enjoy your newfound freedom and time to prep for the baby!

[identity profile] stevesbabygirl.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank God for that!

[identity profile] staciebratton.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 03:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow that sucks! I can't believe they just said "okay, bye!" I am a little jealous of your free time to get everything ready though! I am sure you will enjoy it, and find loads of things to keep yourself busy! :)

[identity profile] stevesbabygirl.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that's pretty much how it felt! I'll really enjoy my free time; I'm just not happy with the way this all ended.

[identity profile] luvbeingamommy.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 05:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Well isn't that a slap in the face? I once quite a job, I gave my two weeks and they said, today will be your last day. I didn't even get to do the last two weeks!

That is one thing I hate about employment here, it is at will. And I try to look at that when contemplating something like you were. I mean, yes you want to be loyal and all, but all the employer utimatly cares about is who can fill the job and what is best for them. Sucks.

But you can now enjoy your new freedom! And hey, maybe we can hang out more!

[identity profile] stevesbabygirl.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
It really does feel like a slap in the face. I'd love to hang out more often!

[identity profile] stevesbabygirl.livejournal.com 2007-02-14 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
Definitely!

[identity profile] lila-02.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 06:01 pm (UTC)(link)
That would have hurt my feelings too. Try not to let it get to you though - you have an exciting time coming up! :)

[identity profile] stevesbabygirl.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm wallowing today, but I think that I'll be fine about it beyond that :).

[identity profile] annie-girl.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 06:50 pm (UTC)(link)
So, your replacement is a permanent replacement? You won't be going back after maternity leave? Or do you have another job lined up? Or will you SAH? :)

At one time you had like 5 jobs and I was never able to keep up with which one you left and when. ;)

It is weird that they would end you like that, but like someone else said, that happens. I also once gave 2 weeks notice at a job and they told me Friday would be my last day, but they would pay me for the whole week. That's pretty normal, I think. Weird in your case, but lots of times normal.

[identity profile] stevesbabygirl.livejournal.com 2007-02-07 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Haha! I'm going to SAH when the baby comes. Well, I guess I'm staying home now :p. This all went down very weird, but if that's what they want, fine.

[identity profile] rancid13.livejournal.com 2007-02-09 04:56 am (UTC)(link)
Wow that was fast! At least you'll have plenty of time to prep and rest up before the baby gets here. :)